One of my cousins, an Asian woman, is getting divorced from her husband. He is a large, blonde male (the ideal white partner) but he is a school teacher. I recall going to their wedding four years ago.
The same thing happened with my mother; she married a tall white male, but the marriage deteriorated as she found out his earning power was low. The infatuation / lust she had when young for the white male was replaced with the grim reality that a white male chasing Asian females is probably a fucking loser. (There, I said it). Meanwhile, my other family members that married Asian are all rich, thirty years later. And I mean fucking filthy rich.
This is a common pattern and I expect many Hapas to relate. The marriage starts out with lust, followed by overwhelming realization that it was a mistake. So these women either go back to Asian men before they hit thirty or try to remarry an Asian male.
DO NOT FALL FOR THIS.