Look closely at this. Eventually this woman is going to have children.
If there wasn’t a market for this – if enough people didn’t believe it, then Esther Ku wouldn’t be on stage saying this kind of thing. Now look at the comments – there are enough white men there both agreeing with her, and white knighting her, meaning that White men – like your, and my father – are fully aware of the stereotypes, support them, agree with what she is saying, and still engage in relationships with Asian woman.
The thing is – you can say, “my parents weren’t like that.” But given the fact that 99% of Asian woman and White male relationships are like this – are you willing to give them the benefit of the doubt? In the twenty or so years since you were born – you don’t think that at some point down the line your parents got rid of their racist attitudes and realized that they had to pretend that they never acted like this? Even still – by engaging in their relationship and not actively speaking out against this kind of thing, they are simply reaffirming this kind of shit.
For what it’s worth, you, and I, are better off not giving them the benefit of the doubt. I sincerely feel sorry for any Eurasian man that is able to respect his parents. If my mother were still alive I would tell her to fuck off and die.