Nobody will listen to us. Thanks to two commenters who sent me this.
Why do people think the children of the most one-sided, unbalanced, politically loaded, racist, eugenic relationship on the planet will all uniformly be okay? Confusion, self-hatred, self-loathing, having other Asian women make fun of you for being Asian despite having a white father, etc. etc.
Being the son of a white man / Asian woman can be incredibly, incredibly damaging. Especially with fetishes, racial hierarchies, latent racism (conservative white dad, abusive or mentally ill, cold, money / status obsessed, or dismissive, white worshipping Asian mom complicit in supporting an asshole). Nothing like it on earth. I explained it to death elsewhere.
I predicted much more, and I will stand by it. He had a psychotic breakdown as did my brother and I would have had I not distanced myself. I predict more. If a male model does it imagine the ugly / average looking Hapas. He looks more Asian than me but better looking. Imagine looking Asian as a Hapa, being constantly reminded that white men – even the worst, worst, worst ones like your father – are better than you. Keep in mind that Krit also identified as Asian. Imagine looking Asian as a Hapa, being turned down by Asian women and white women, being told to be proud to be Asian yet Asian women throw themselves at white men, yadda yadda yadda.
Reddit discussion here.
Whatever it is, it’s not love bringing these people together, so expect the children to reflect that.