🔥Asian Women Don’t Love, Part 2.

Any Asian woman reading this will know this is true. Some, who like Asian men, will read this and agree. Some, who like white men, will read this and get angry, but they know it’s true. For some reason, black women agree almost 100% of the time.

Asian women love an image.
My mother is Chinese and my father tall, blue eyed, bearded, white, with a strong jaw, a large physique, hairy arms.
But they didn’t love each other, and they never did; all they did was fight; all she did was nag him; insult him, degrade him, over, and over, and over. She used him to make herself feel better compared to her Asian peers and siblings. To feel like she was just as good as those blonde girls she saw in catalogues. White guys will deny this till the end of time but they don’t understand Asian culture. How cutthroat it is to one up your sisters, your peers, your friends. If you get a white husband you can do that. Better yet a tall, light haired husband.
My parents had no friends; none of my mothers’ sisters have friends because they are extremely bitter, nagging, abusive people who constantly hit, slap, punch and insult their white husbands – every one of whom would be considered a less attractive, meek, white man, definitely the type who is unable to get white women.
I am a Eurasian son of a tall white guy and a cutthroat, soulless Asian woman so I have no reason to lie other than to voice my outright disgust for some Asian women and white men, and my embarrassment belonging to this demographic.
I don’t like Asian women. I in fact, hate how they openly support white supremacy and support white men who use them as a means to reaffirm white superiority – while laughing at Asian looking Hapa men on the street.
Asian women see that they have high value in the eyes of people like my father. All they have to do is play a game, market themselves as being traditional, subservient and get their “white lover.”
Conservative white men who are “sick” of the “liberated” behavior of white women. “Liberated” behavior pretty much just means: white women won’t be with me because white women have too high standards. They don’t like my meek behavior. 
Asian women have high standards too. 
But to them, a white guy is just a way to circumvent their search for a high standards Asian guy, and “white men” are just a step up, because they’re white. They have blonde hair. This is better than any Asian guy.
Asian women feel better about this. They feel like they’ve “made it.”
But they don’t love the man. They present an image of their marriage to the outside world but inside their homes they nag the shit out of the guy, they bully him, they pressure him to put on a show for their friends. Asian women are bottom of the barrel, mass-produced, white-worshipping trash and yet they expect their own children not to notice.
Look at the photo of my parents. My dad staring blankly at the table while the sisters chatted away. He was an accessory, a means to an end, that’s all. Why is it when you see Chinese women married to white guys, the child is shown off like a handbag – the husband nowhere to be seen? Why is it when you see these couples in public, between the bouts of PDA that makes everyone uncomfortable, they seem miserable?
They will have sex with him a few times but only as long as he keeps up the image.
Look at how many Asian women love taking trips to London and Paris, taking pictures of the buildings. This is just an image. Nothing else. The white man makes them feel like they’re just as good as the Parisian buildings, the Parisian street scenes they’ve seen in movies.
Years ago my mother took a trip to Paris, and she brought along her sister. Her sister, also, was conveniently married to a white man, and a tall one (divorced now). My dad stayed back in the office.
Their third sister was not married to a white guy. She is now a VP at a very large, very powerful investment bank and owns some of the top tier property in New York. Her husband is Chinese. She’s a devout Christian as well and arguably the prettiest in the family.
My mother? She died, she essentially willed herself to death, years after becoming so irate at my father for failing to match up with the “American dream.” He made only $40,000 a year. He was going bald. He couldn’t afford to take her on trips to Paris anymore. He even refused to live in Manhattan for fear of Jews and blacks, the place my mother loved.
When my dad went to go visit his family in his country bumpkin small town, my mother would scream about how she hated it, how she hated that small little town, where there were no street lights. She would beg to go back to Manhattan.
It wasn’t love. She only “stuck” with him as long as he provided an image. After all – she wanted a white man, so any white man could have done.
I’m surprised she didn’t cheat, to get what she wanted. And at the very end, right before she died, she hated him so much for not providing her the life she thought she could get with a 6’2″ or 6’3″ white guy, like she saw in the movies. Like many insane Asian women, she threatened to kill herself in front of me, and my brother; by holding a butcher’s knife to her arm. She would drive our car up to 100 mph on the highway and threaten to crash. She would throw knives at the wall and whisper in my ear before bed about how worthless my father was.
My wife does not like white men. She is Asian. The reason for this is as follows: she has told me that she wants “security.” She wants a quiet life where she can just raise her babies and enjoy a quiet existence. Very different from those women who dream of living abroad and mingling with white people to feel as if they’re better than their peers.
And now, as their son, I’m perpetually stuck in between. Being proud to be Asian is just ridiculous at this point. To this date, I still remember the horror of feeling so completely alone around white people, seeing Asian woman after Asian woman throwing herself at white guys. I had to actually go off to an Asian country to die, due to my self-hatred; a self-hatred instilled in me by the people around me, in my own family.
And now and then when I feel “proud” to be Asian I just think back to that moment that I realized that I was completely abandoned by the same people who are creating people just like me.  Any pride just slips away. I was robbed of a life because my mother had a fetish – that she had to marry a white man, raise me in a racist country; a white man, just because he was white, and turned out to be (since most white men prefer white women) a loser, and left my brother and I with nothing; no bed to sleep on, no roof over our heads, a father who didn’t work, and Asian looks to be humiliated and rejected over, and over, and over.

?Asian Women Don’t Love, Part 2.

Any Asian woman reading this will know this is true. Some, who like Asian men, will read this and agree. Some, who like white men, will read this and get angry, but they know it’s true. For some reason, black women agree almost 100% of the time.

Asian women love an image.

My mother is Chinese and my father tall, blue eyed, bearded, white, with a strong jaw, a large physique, hairy arms.

But they didn’t love each other, and they never did; all they did was fight; all she did was nag him; insult him, degrade him, over, and over, and over. She used him to make herself feel better compared to her Asian peers and siblings. To feel like she was just as good as those blonde girls she saw in catalogues. White guys will deny this till the end of time but they don’t understand Asian culture. How cutthroat it is to one up your sisters, your peers, your friends. If you get a white husband you can do that. Better yet a tall, light haired husband.

I am a Eurasian son of a tall white guy and a cutthroat, soulless Asian woman so I have no reason to lie other than to voice my outright disgust for some Asian women and white men, and my embarrassment belonging to this demographic.

Asian women see that they have high value in the eyes of people like my father. All they have to do is play a game, market themselves as being traditional, subservient and get their “white lover.”

Conservative white men who are “sick” of the “liberated” behavior of white women. “Liberated” behavior pretty much just means: white women won’t be with me because white women have too high standards. They don’t like my meek behavior. 

Asian women have high standards too. 

But to them, a white guy is just a way to circumvent their search for a high standards Asian guy, and “white men” are just a step up, because they’re white. They have blonde hair. This is better than any Asian guy.

Asian women feel better about this. They feel like they’ve “made it.”

But they don’t love the man. They present an image of their marriage to the outside world but inside their homes they nag the shit out of the guy, they bully him, they pressure him to put on a show for their friends. Asian women are bottom of the barrel, mass-produced, white-worshipping trash and yet they expect their own children not to notice.

Look at the photo of my parents. My dad staring blankly at the table while the sisters chatted away. He was an accessory, a means to an end, that’s all. Why is it when you see Chinese women married to white guys, the child is shown off like a handbag – the husband nowhere to be seen? Why is it when you see these couples in public, between the bouts of PDA that makes everyone uncomfortable, they seem miserable?

They will have sex with him a few times but only as long as he keeps up the image.

Look at how many Asian women love taking trips to London and Paris, taking pictures of the buildings. This is just an image. Nothing else. The white man makes them feel like they’re just as good as the Parisian buildings, the Parisian street scenes they’ve seen in movies.

Years ago my mother took a trip to Paris, and she brought along her sister. Her sister, also, was conveniently married to a white man, and a tall one (divorced now). My dad stayed back in the office.

Their third sister was not married to a white guy. She is now a VP at a very large, very powerful investment bank and owns some of the top tier property in New York. Her husband is Chinese. She’s a devout Christian as well and arguably the prettiest in the family.

My mother? She died, she essentially willed herself to death, years after becoming so irate at my father for failing to match up with the “American dream.” He made only $40,000 a year. He was going bald. He couldn’t afford to take her on trips to Paris anymore. He even refused to live in Manhattan for fear of Jews and blacks, the place my mother loved.

When my dad went to go visit his family in his country bumpkin small town, my mother would scream about how she hated it, how she hated that small little town, where there were no street lights. She would beg to go back to Manhattan.

It wasn’t love. She only “stuck” with him as long as he provided an image. After all – she wanted a white man, so any white man could have done.

I’m surprised she didn’t cheat, to get what she wanted. And at the very end, right before she died, she hated him so much for not providing her the life she thought she could get with a 6’2″ or 6’3″ white guy, like she saw in the movies. Like many insane Asian women, she threatened to kill herself in front of me, and my brother; by holding a butcher’s knife to her arm. She would drive our car up to 100 mph on the highway and threaten to crash. She would throw knives at the wall and whisper in my ear before bed about how worthless my father was.

My wife does not like white men. She is Asian. The reason for this is as follows: she has told me that she wants “security.” She wants a quiet life where she can just raise her babies and enjoy a quiet existence. Very different from those women who dream of living abroad and mingling with white people to feel as if they’re better than their peers.

And now, as their son, I’m perpetually stuck in between. Being proud to be Asian is just ridiculous at this point. To this date, I still remember the horror of feeling so completely alone around white people, seeing Asian woman after Asian woman throwing herself at white guys. I had to actually go off to an Asian country to die, due to my self-hatred; a self-hatred instilled in me by the people around me, in my own family.

And now and then when I feel “proud” to be Asian I just think back to that moment that I realized that I was completely abandoned by the same people who are creating people just like me.  Any pride just slips away. I was robbed of a life because my mother had a fetish – that she had to marry a white man, raise me in a racist country; a white man, just because he was white, and turned out to be (since most white men prefer white women) a loser, and left my brother and I with nothing; no bed to sleep on, no roof over our heads, a father who didn’t work, and Asian looks to be humiliated and rejected over, and over, and over.

The Asian Female / White Male Dynamic Broken Down from the Inside (I.e., From a Eurasian Son Viewpoint)

Since this blog is quite long I figured I would reiterate my experience as the son of an Asian mom and White father. If you have similar experiences please contribute to this thread.

I will break this down sequentially.

  1. My mother had a poor relationship with her father, who was physically abusive to his children; she also had a background of poverty wherein the grandfather quite literally beat all of the children with a cane in the case of them doing poorly in school.
  2. She threw herself at my father on meeting him in a university setting; he was tall and blue eyed with red hair. So in other words, she had a white-fetish.
  3. Father was a nebbish, soft-spoken “Asiaphile” with a degree in East Asian studies and multilingual in Asian languages.
  4. Father believed mother was “God’s gift from heaven.”
  5. My brother was born, then I was born via C-section, after which my mother received a blood infusion with blood tainted with Hepatitis (which would ultimately prove fatal).
  6. Up until the marriage and the time after that I don’t recall since I was too young.
  7. Brother looked distinctly more Asian than me, with black hair.
  8. Mother began to “Tiger Mom” my brother and focus all of her attention onto him; I suspect this is because he looked more Asian.
  9. I was allowed more liberties in terms of sports, video games, social activities; brother was mostly friendless.
  10. I began to act out at a young age, acting violently and anti-socially; possibly as a way to get attention from my mother who seemed to devote time to brother (possibly because she felt little connection with me, because of the C-section or because I looked less like her)
  11. My mother gradually grew sicker and with this more anger at my father’s racism (she called the police on him), as well as his inability to provide (was making roughly 40,000 to 50,000 a year against her siblings’ husbands who were making millions), as well as his cultural ineptitude and unwillingness to take a strict mentality with the children. Her fantasy of a tall white man became a reality of being married to a balding white guy – the exact type of guy who marries Asian women in the first place.
  12. Mother repeatedly hit my brother and I with various items, coat hangers, rulers, etc.
  13. Mother confiscated our toys repeatedly, punishing us with more and more severity.
  14. Towards the end of her life grew extremely resentful and hateful towards my father, constantly badmouthing him to me, criticizing everything from his eating habits to his appearance, and refused to allow us to go with him to his home state in the event of her death. Near the end she had a full blown hatred of him and refused to even see him while on her deathbed; she died alone.
  15. Died. I did not cry at her funeral although my brother did. I was laughing. This followed by 12 years of nightmares involving my mother returning.
  16. Brother having been primed to be accepted into a single top ranked school his entire life, was rejected despite my mother’s promises and efforts. His mental state collapsed.
  17. Unable to function without mother’s intervention he locked himself in his room for an entire year.
  18. After this became hooked on meds, institutionalized and spent $150,000 on mental health services despite doctors saying nothing was wrong with him.
  19. Effectively destroyed his entire brain with medicine and is no longer recognizable as a person; has worn the same shirt for 11 years. Schizophrenic as well as violent breakdowns at work in which the police were involved.
  20. My story was effectively increasingly paranoid, hatred of my Asian appearance, shame, involvement in white supremacist groups, extreme weight loss and weight gain in order to alter my appearance to be more white, etc.

Daniel Holtzclaw and the Mixed Race / Half-Asian Lie

Former Oklahoma City police officer Daniel Holtzclaw found guilty of rape, sentenced to 265 years in prison.

Not all Eurasians are messed up people.

But all of the argument seem to fall on deaf ears; mixed race people can, and will be troubled, especially when longstanding beliefs about the sexual potency of certain groups versus the negligible, invisible value of others. I.e., white men are more attractive than Asian men, generally.

Now tell me, in what world, in what single point in space or time, is it possible for a woman who – even though she won’t admit it to anyone but herself – is incapable of seeing beyond the race of a partner, incapable of being with a man of a certain race – to have a son who looks like said race?

In simple terms: What happens when Asian women seek integration into White culture, only sleep with white men, and yet create half Asian sons?

Even after years of telling him – no, no, it isn’t true, I didn’t marry your father because he was white; will he finally just be unable to deal with the reality of how he is treated as a man, and what he sees on the street, versus the outright lies his mother and father tell him?

Even if 90% (and I doubt it’s that high) of Eurasians had no issues, that still leaves thousands who have issues – and look what they’ve done.

Look what a group of dedicated Hapas have done to the landscape of the discussion in a single year! By using logic they have singlehandedly dominated the conversation to being merely a click away from the truth.

Mr. Holtzclaw is a prime example of a Eurasian; identified as white even while raping black women; savagely hating black women and exercising his desire to express his sexual power over them since his racist white father, and slavish Asian mother had removed any sense of masculinity from him, thus his bodybuilding obsession, and his closeted need to exercise control; i.e., through policing and rape. The similarities with Elliot Rodger are staggering.

People seem to underestimate the difficult of navigating life as a mixed-race person. Many mixed race people have girlfriends, have seemingly normal lives but struggle terribly with the mental strain of millions of tiny jabs at themselves, such that they never really settle into a whole. Look at how crazy this website was when I first started out. I call this the “Hapa Psychosis.” I do believe it’s a real thing; it’s hard to pinpoint, but it comes with a higher IQ, and a mixed background and cultural confusion. Maybe this is really what Daniel was suffering from. We’ve seen it before – so will we see it again?

Stop Listing Philipino Hapas as “Successful Eurasians”

For whatever reason it looks like whenever there’s a successful Hapa listed, 9/10 times his mother is Philipino.

I was trying to think why, and I honestly do think that this is because the women in the Philippines are so poor that out marriage is there only option to survival, not hatred.

It’s totally different from guys with mothers who actively look at avoid Asian men totally and spend their youth chasing white men and demeaning Asian men. This seems to be the Chinese / Korean and maybe Japanese category.

The Eurasian Perspective on the Taiwanese Abuse video

Imagine if there was something you knew, but that the rest of the world refused to acknowledge, how frustrated would you feel?

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My wife’s commentary on the video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cYYVATuLwCA

Imagine if Asian women had extremely low standards for white men, and extremely high for Asian men; imagine being a Eurasian son who has to live with this knowledge; in a way, all Eurasians are unified by the very fact that by all definitions it appears that Asian women vastly prefer white men, even the ones with the most pitiful qualifications, a privilege from which we cannot benefit.

This video is making its way around the internet. I am one of the few people standing up and saying that it is largely bullshit and that the Asian man’s vindication was not justified, but understandable at someone with my own frustrations at being Eurasian and constantly reminded at how white supremacy is valuable – especially from within my own household.

A lot of people are coming to the defense of this young man who for all intents and purposes looks like a victim. However, I would say that both parties are victims, in this case; the fat man’s being the result of his inadequacy in achieving the ideal expected of Asian women, and the white man, in being as naive as he is in believing that her love for him is somehow pure.

People are also acting in complete outrage without actually consider the implications of a man who is unequivocally unattractive yet was able to conveniently find his way into one of the most common interracial pairings on the planet, without anyone attempting to determine his character or the motivations behind his love for Taiwan. My father “loved” China and Japanese culture, and had studied East Asian studies for his masters degree and ultimately his passion developed out of his social inability and desire to be worshipped and valued. 

On closer inspection it appears to me (and my wife) that this man is VERY unfortunate in the looks department and as the Taiwanese man says… he would be unable to get a girlfriend back in the United States or any Western country. Moreover, unlike said white male, the Taiwanese man would be unable to travel to Britain and find a white woman to pair up with, on the basis that he is Asian.

I would astutely say that this is the case, which is why he was so absolutely offended by the confrontation. As he is at the bottom of the heap in terms of attractiveness while his girlfriend is at least a 6 or a 7 in terms of looks, I would definitely assert that being white, or at least a non-local, helped him, and / or that his girlfriend is mentally ill. I say this because while there being relatively few of them, enough women have come up to me or initiated contact with me on the assumption that I was white (at first), and some even disengaged after finding out that I was half Chinese; the fundamental clause was the whiteness of the party, or at very least, as my wife said, that he is different. 

Young love being young love he is setting himself up, and she is in all likelihood going to prove to be untrustworthy and once it dawns on her that he really is as ugly as he seems, she will start breaking down into her psychosis, which I saw my mother breaking into, some ten years after she got married and realized that being married to a white man didn’t mean castles and green fields, but tiny apartments and extremely odd behavior. Already the girl is demonstrating immensely bizarre behavior, which would necessitate that she was psychologically prone to mental illness and / or drawn to white men as a means to find refuge.

I speak, and other Eurasians speak, that and even my commenters have spoken about how Asian women who deliberately seek to date out often times display antisocial behavior, and idealize foreign culture and lifestyles as being superior – which itself is indicative of mental illness as most people know there is no promised land. In later stages in a relationship this oftentimes turns into nagging, passive aggressive behavior, and sex withholding from her white partner.

The reason I say this is that the originator of the video is extremely disingenuous. I myself am offended, as a good looking Eurasian, that an Asian woman would rather have a guy like that than a normal Asian man; and what astounds me is that there really is no basis for the relationship other than that he is white, or that he looks the way that he does. 

There are enough good looking Asian men out there, yet women are en masse rejecting good looking Asian men in favor of white men of various looks levels, indicating an immediately apparent overvaluation of whiteness.

There’s no basis for the relationship other than the whiteness of the partner, and any basis revolves primarily around the fact that he is white regardless of nuances that develop within the relationship; the reason for this might very well be because she is “artistic,” or attempting to “rebel from traditional Taiwanese society,” but from the inside out, when she has millions of Taiwanese men to choose from, and a host of good looking White men as well, that she settles for this male. And even when she ends up with a good looking White man, a large portion of the time it was his whiteness that gave him an extra advantage to get his food in the door, while other Asian men were unable to step in.

I have been on both sides of this, depending on how I was perceived.

A good example is when I met my wife; at the beginning she was totally disinterested in me because I was “foreign.” It was only after showing her that I was Chinese, that my family was one of the most prominent Chinese families in New York, that she began to like and trust me – the fundamental issue being that she saw that I was trustworthy and stable, something she associated with Chinese and Asian men. Looks were not the issue – she was willing to have a less than attractive Asian man, as do most sane Asian women, over a good looking white man, for the purpose of having a stable life.

My wife, as you can see in the above post, is mentally sane. Completely so, compared to a woman like my mother and those in my family who valued whiteness as a means to “success,” or “integration,” while ignoring the obvious detriments of overvaluing whiteness and having ones own non-white kids see it.

Why does this bother me? As a Eurasian, I am constantly reminded that Asian women would rather have bottom of the barrel white men, or even average white men, over top-tier or even average Asian men, and this to me is a constant reminder of my worth as a human being as the world sees me as an Asian man; the fact that even white women take note of the disparity on this website, indicates that there is something fundamentally unbalanced and wrong about it. This is one of the reasons why Eurasians are so prone to implosion, in the face of the constant reminder that even the worst of all white men are better partners than the best of all Asian men.

My father had severe emotional problems (unable to participate in class as a child, severely bullied, unable to face confrontation) so an Asian woman (who in turn’s only requirement was that the man was white), was his best option, as White women saw right through him.

Ultimately what happened was that two people got together on the basis of their inability to manage their own cultures and on the basis of severe emotional flaws that made them overvalue the perceived qualities of the other’s race, while ignoring the massive amount of flaws in their partners. And it doesn’t matter if this isn’t the case for all partners; the fact that the WM/AW pattern is so common means that Asian men failed to meet the expectation of their women in simply existing, the same way that a Eurasian is reminded constantly that white is better.

And ultimately what this means is that the child, an Asian looking child, is going to be perpetually reminded of his low social value, since because white men, even the worst ones, are supposedly better partner than Asian men, will destroy him completely from the get go. Combined with social isolation from both sides, racism directed towards him, mental illness and likely poor looks and physical health (in all likelihood much worse than the offender in the video), will make him a tremendous, violent threat to society, or drive him into bizarre or psychotic behavior (the founder of Hapas.com is a transvestite!)

The reason why the Taiwanese public had such an outcry at this is very well that any man who is familiar with the behavior of Chinese and by larger extension, Asian women, knows that mental illness is very prevalent and any woman who would willingly sleep with a man with such immense defects is herself mentally ill, at very best, she will value a white man, for his appearance and looks and excuse his behavior but the fact remains that the most undesirable psychological elements tend towards finding refuge in a male that she identifies as being able to grant her “freedom.”

If you can’t understand why an Asian woman choosing the bottom of the barrel white dudes, is offensive to Eurasian men, then there’s something objectively wrong with your brain. Not my brain. Yours.

Both of those men should have been single. But one of them wasn’t because he was white.

Get it through your head why this is offensive to a Eurasian male. It’s not rocket science.

But more importantly do remember that Eurasians are at special risk because they inherit all of their mothers’ mental illnesses, and none of the white privilege that comes with it. And even in the so called “healthy” WM/AW couples… we inherit none of the privilege.

A Challenge to My Readers:

Observe Eurasians in real life.

Observe their behavior; observe their reactions to being called Asians.

Also observe their reaction to saying “of course your dad is white.”

Also observe the numerous amount of single, gay, or just plain forever alone Eurasians out there.

Until the age of 22-23, this is doable; the constant lies fed to them by their parents that race doesn’t matter is enough to bide their time, until early adulthood, where they can still hold onto the hope that they can achieve true equality in the dating world, and in the real world.

But most of all I challenge you to really observe the ones you know and consider it in light of what I am writing on this website.

Remember: pain can be subdued with enough psychotherapy of comforting talk; but biological reality? Can that really be subdued, ever?

Again, I ask any Eurasian person or even a white person reading this blog: why are Asian women so adamant about finding white men? What is the issue here?

Reddit Dump: “I am an Asian woman engaged to a white man, concerned about my future sons.”

As if Asian women are going to give a single shit about us… but I’m still posting here as a sort of canary in the coal mine.

My notes: I just started thinking about how Asian women favoring white men doesn’t actually have to do necessarily with self hatred, (although it does), but a desire for “excitement” and “rebellion.” The fact that us Eurasians are left as a result with no solid ethnic identity and that this excitement and rebellion uniformly revolves around that which White men and western culture provides – we are left out of this exciting culture because of our appearance and constantly reminded that we are Asian men, even by the Asian women who are having such a good time “escaping.”

On top of that we’re brought into a world and told that it’s personality and ability that matters… yet we look exactly like the kind of men our mothers and fathers spent decades of their lives laughing at.

Rebellion and excitement is not a foundation for a relationship or for raising a child with healthy self esteem unless the child looks like the object of desire and excitement and even then not so much.

In this way we have so many broken WMAW families and so many broken Hapas who turn to drugs and crime to escape perpetual feelings of inferiority. As Hapas we are expected to just accept that white men are better fathers / sperm donors and take pride in being Asian, in the same breath. Logically it makes no sense.

I am an Asian woman engaged to a white man, concerned about my future sons.

Top rated quote:

You need to make sure your husband understands that racism isn’t some made up thing that minorities complain about. He needs to understand that your son WILL have it harder in the dating scene and that he might resent other members of the family. Asian women enjoy a ton of sexual privilege. White men enjoy even more. And Eurasian women (his sisters) are probably the single most desirable demographic when it comes to dating/relationships. Eurasian men are all the way on the other end of the spectrum, doing well with pretty much only Asian girls. DO NOT LIE TO YOUR FUTURE SON. DO NOT TELL HIM HIS RACE OR GENDER DO NOT MATTER. Why AMWF hapas are so normal by comparison is that they don’t desperately and obsessively wish they were white 24/7 because they identify with their asian father. Also usually when it’s AMWF the Asian guy is cool whereas with WMAF the white guy is often a socially awkward loser. 

I can’t repeat enough how little I think of white men’s abilities to raise minority children but if you love him and he is willing to learn then teach him. If he’s a fuckwit like nexdemise who complains about anti-white racism and SJWs then you need to drop him instantly. If he’s a fuckwit who claims to be “colorblind” and appears otherwise liberal then he is teachable but is still a fuckwit until taught correctly.

That being said I legitimately wish you happiness.

User /u/trustmeimhapa

The rest of them have mental problems. Depression, suicide, crime, drug abuse, mental breakdown, inferiority feelings. It’s a tragedy.

And all likelihood is it won’t change. White males would have to give up the power. Ain’t gonna happen. We’re screwed. Just bi-products of Asian inferiority and white supremacy. Like we are some sort of trophy that our father conquered the Asians.

It’s not gonna get better so we just have to focus on making it less worse.

Conversation between OP and another poster:

[–]throwawayasianQ[S] 1 point4 days ago

Why does dating a white guy automatically mean she is self hating? My brother married a white woman, is he also self hating?

[–]OnlyEnDreams[F] 8 points4 days ago*

because you’re more likely to be dating a racist, a supremacist like Nexdemise. someone who disdains asian men or has no regard for them but will date asian women exclusively. I can already point that out in this thread.

Good to know. Thanks. Seriously though, ad hominems all around. I might as well go “2 inch chink chode”.

I bet you thought he was a nice white guy with an asian gf. This is what you don’t see from your white men. the side that wants to snuff out any link to your race that you or your kids have left. they are not at all interested in raising proud asians. actually you two can go on perfectly fine and have girls but an asian son would be subject to his father’s and asian women’s belittling of asian men. listen to this podcast at 6:30. shit like this is normal in white society.

More aggregated comments:

Lol at all these careerist women who run off with a foreign man to a foreign country and only think about money, then in their 30s and 40s start caring about their “roots” and “Chinese culture”. Of course the kids are negatively affected, as the mother will force them into language classes and “cultural events”, only to resent them for not being real Chinese.

On a post about blogger Xiaxue feminizing her half Asian son:

This post resonates with me. My mother used to dress me up in dresses like a girl when I was that age. She used to always feminize the shit out of me growing up as a kid too.

She made me moisturize my hands till they looked like girls hands, condition my hair everyday. Talk to people from a feminine asian position of submission and over extreme politeness. To be ultra clean like a girl would be – rejecting any male like traits like they were bad for me. I could go on and on.

I hate it more than you can imagine.

[–]jemisforce[S] 2 points16 hours ago

Maybe she wanted a hapa girl lile 99% of wmaf couples.

As for other posts, I am considering moving them over to eurasianpeople.co to start cataloguing the large number of complaints and horror stories about being mixed race in America.

For non-Asian men in relationships with Asian women

Imagine, for a minute, that you were part of an ethnic group of men that for some reason were so unappealing to women of their own race, despite every quality of themselves being supposedly fine, that their women wound up, for whatever reason, in the arms of non-Asian men – not by the thousands but by the millions.

Now imagine your own son who looks more or less like this spurned ethnic group. No matter what he does, how he looks, he will continue to witness women who look like his own mother spurning men who look like him.

Good luck.

By the way I took my childhood picture down because this site is on its way being the number one site for white male / Asian women relationships. It’s only a matter of time before someone I know finds it.

A Slight Primer For any Asian Men reading this

Foreign or western.

I think most of you know what’s going on, but if you don’t, it’s really not worth worrying about.

It dawned on me that Asian women will hold much lower standards for white males, because they genuinely view them as superior. The extent of this, I’m not sure. I can’t say for certain what percentage of women think like this but it could be all of them, for all I know.

Your problem is that you marry these women. It’s perfectly okay to live your life alone; sex can be gotten through relationships with other races of women or through prostitution. I beg of you to not marry these women and rather to let them give birth to men like me. Once their lusts wear off, frankly the marriages become disastrous and I am testament to that. Moreover Asian women are women, human women, governed by the laws of human women, wherein sex is levied in exchange for some sort of currency, be it emotional, physical, monetary, or racial, or even the investment of time itself. Furthermore, depriving yourself of egotism and desire for sex also deprives future generations from a woman that can satiate their sexual urges, so in a way you are saving yourself and your future dignity from the embarrassment. Slip off the Confucian bullshit and just enjoy life.

My problem is that unlike most Hapas I’m probably above average intelligence; I think like most children the bulk of Hapas are born with depreciating IQ’s (for whatever reason) that doesn’t lend itself towards introspection. So you have a bunch of whit-ish looking Hapas who are more than happy to laud up their white side.

The current world is one where the blanket of hedonism is being waved by people frankly too stupid to find greater purpose in life; it’s not really worth missing out on since this lifestyle is unsustainable and will ultimately lead to cultural collapse from violent outside entities (since you largely have to be white to enjoy hedonism, and the majority of the world is neither white, nor able to engage in laissez-faire existence, as even getting enough food is not easy or even a given).

I suggest you translate this and distribute it on Chinese language message boards, Etc.